Comments on: Threesomes (Menage e Trois) – In the Bedroom & Beyond http://doubleyourdatingblog.com/multiple-partners/threesomes-menage-e-trois-in-bedroom-beyond Mon, 28 Jun 2010 09:08:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Dennis Miedema http://doubleyourdatingblog.com/multiple-partners/threesomes-menage-e-trois-in-bedroom-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-2036 Dennis Miedema Sun, 21 Mar 2010 18:17:33 +0000 http://doubleyourdatingblog.com/?p=165#comment-2036 As a fellow dating coach and a guy who has had a threesome or two himself I can honestly say: if you're girlfriend/wife is into it, then why not? However, it's also possible to end up having a threesome with two women you aren't dating. The key to achieving that is remembering this... Women have the same sexual nature as men do, but they've learned to surpress it. Why? Because if a woman sleeps with 3 guys every single month, she's called a slut. If a man sleeps with 3 women a month though, he's "THE man". Because women don't want to lose face, lose their reputation, and be viewed as sluts, they "hide" their sexual nature while they fantasize about it as much as we do. Hell, most women I've met have admitted that they fantasize way more than guys do because sex is forbidden fruit to them and that is what? Yep: more exciting than what's allowed... Thinking along those lines, we think women will get freaked out when you start to kiss and be all touchy/feely with woman #1 while woman #2 is in the same room. But the truth is stranger than fiction here: Even if woman #2 isn't initially interestes in having a threesome, she'll get more and more excited the longer she sees her friend and you get it on and get this... usually woman #2 will join without you needing to ask because she's insanely hot and bothered. I can just hear you think: "won't woman #2 just get up and leave?" And from the bottom of my heart and experience and those of my students I answer: only 1 in 10 do, so most guys simply make bad assumptions about threesomes while the truth is so obvious that it almost seems stupid not to realize what's really going on: Women are just as sexual as we are, want to experiment in bed just as much as we do, and are superfreaks from time to time just like men are haha! To More Dating Success, Dennis Miedema Win With Women As a fellow dating coach and a guy who has had a threesome or two himself I can honestly say: if you’re girlfriend/wife is into it, then why not?

However, it’s also possible to end up having a threesome with two women you aren’t dating.

The key to achieving that is remembering this…

Women have the same sexual nature as men do, but they’ve learned to surpress it. Why? Because if a woman sleeps with 3 guys every single month, she’s called a slut. If a man sleeps with 3 women a month though, he’s “THE man”.

Because women don’t want to lose face, lose their reputation, and be viewed as sluts, they “hide” their sexual nature while they fantasize about it as much as we do. Hell, most women I’ve met have admitted that they fantasize way more than guys do because sex is forbidden fruit to them and that is what? Yep: more exciting than what’s allowed…

Thinking along those lines, we think women will get freaked out when you start to kiss and be all touchy/feely with woman #1 while woman #2 is in the same room. But the truth is stranger than fiction here:

Even if woman #2 isn’t initially interestes in having a threesome, she’ll get more and more excited the longer she sees her friend and you get it on and get this… usually woman #2 will join without you needing to ask because she’s insanely hot and bothered.

I can just hear you think: “won’t woman #2 just get up and leave?”

And from the bottom of my heart and experience and those of my students I answer: only 1 in 10 do, so most guys simply make bad assumptions about threesomes while the truth is so obvious that it almost seems stupid not to realize what’s really going on:

Women are just as sexual as we are, want to experiment in bed just as much as we do, and are superfreaks from time to time just like men are haha!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

]]> By: Frank http://doubleyourdatingblog.com/multiple-partners/threesomes-menage-e-trois-in-bedroom-beyond/comment-page-1/#comment-1225 Frank Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:47:23 +0000 http://doubleyourdatingblog.com/?p=165#comment-1225 Threesomes are amazing. Me and my wife, Jam decided we wanted to try something new. She was all for the idea and we got her best friend to come over after dinner. We spoke to her about it and then that night, had one the the best experiences. It was indeed tricky to keep my mind on my wife, seeing as it was all new. But, I did find out that she has a thing for the same sex. They sure put on a show. My advice is not to be too attentive to yourself eg. "Oh my god, I can't believe I get both of them!" Think more along the lines of, I want to give THEM pleasure. But overall, ;) have fun. Threesomes are amazing. Me and my wife, Jam decided we wanted to try something new. She was all for the idea and we got her best friend to come over after dinner. We spoke to her about it and then that night, had one the the best experiences. It was indeed tricky to keep my mind on my wife, seeing as it was all new. But, I did find out that she has a thing for the same sex. They sure put on a show. My advice is not to be too attentive to yourself eg. “Oh my god, I can’t believe I get both of them!” Think more along the lines of, I want to give THEM pleasure. But overall, ;) have fun.

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